Ukuthetha inyani, xa kujongwa iminyaka yalo bhuti nodade, iqhelekile into yokuba lo mzalwana avukwe kukubona le ntombazana ihamba ze phambi kwakhe. Mhlawumbi okwenzekileyo ngokulandelayo akuyonxalenye yezicwangciso zesiqhelo, kodwa ndixelele ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaba ungabuchasa ubuhle obunjalo obuneenwele ezimnyama? Yiloo nto ndiyithethayo.
Yonke intombi kufuneka ifunde indlela yokulala ngesondo. Kwaye kuhle xa abazali beqonda ngayo. Utata wakhe wazama ukumfundisa indlela elula, kodwa umama wakhe wathi wayeyazi ngcono indlela yokuncanca nokushukumisa. Bagqiba kwelokuba bangamchukumisi iimpundu okwangoku, kodwa bamfundisa ukuziphatha kakuhle ebuntwaneni nasemlonyeni. Umama waba yinkosi enobuchule kwaye wafundisa intombi yakhe ubuchule obufanelekileyo. Enjani yona ukuba ntle intsapho!
Ngoku ndiyazi into endiza kuyenza xa ndidibana nobhuti wam (ndizomunca incanca).